Why Moms Should Step in Front of the Camera
As a lifestyle family photographer in Victoria, BC, I regularly chat with moms. A common sentiment among them is, “I’m always the one taking the photos” or “I’m never in the pictures.” It’s a sad reality that moms are often the least photographed individuals in the family, and I believe this stems from two key reasons:
For starters, moms typically shoulder the primary responsibility of preserving family memories, often being the photographers at birthday parties, family holidays, sporting events, and even capturing the everyday moments. Consequently, she’s noticeably missing from the photographic records of these events.
Further, some moms are camera-shy due to self-perceived imperfections. They’re known for being their worst critics, avoiding the camera lens due to concerns about their appearance, whether it be weight, wrinkles, hair, or other insecurities. So, let’s get into why moms need to be in photos in Victoria, BC!
Moms, It’s Time to Step into the Frame!
There are numerous compelling reasons for moms to overcome their apprehensions and step in front of the camera. Here are a few of the most important reasons why moms need to be in photos in Victoria BC:
You Are More Valuable Than You realize.
Let’s face it: moms often put their needs last. You sacrifice sleep, sanity, and personal time for your children week after week. You juggle the demands of cooking, walking the dog, organising carpools, and ensuring everyone has clean clothes. And amidst all this, you may feel guilty about spending time or money on yourself while selflessly splurging on your family.
However, you’re deserving of more. You are invaluable to your family and the world. You bring a unique blend of skills, talents, interests, and energy to your family. You deserve to be the focus once in a while and to be cherished by others. And most importantly, you deserve to be in the family photos, not just for your children’s sake but also for your own. You have immense value, not just as a mother and memory keeper, but as an individual, exactly as you are.
Your Children Will Cherish Photos of You
There’s nothing quite like flipping through old family photo albums and seeing images of my mom when she was younger. But will the current generation of children, with moms taking smartphone photos of everything, have similar cherished memories? Will they see their childhood photos with you, flaws and all, lovingly captured, or will you be noticeably absent, hidden behind the camera, or your insecurities? This is why being in family photos should be a priority. It might not seem significant now, but when your children grow up, it will be too late. So seize the day and create portraits that will be priceless for your children and grandchildren.
Your Family Loves You Just the Way You Are
Many women are critical of their appearance in photos. We tend to focus on our perceived flaws and let them keep us away from the camera. However, how you look in a portrait depends on the lighting, posing, and angle. It’s not about you! A skilled photographer can highlight your best features and make you love your photos. Remember, your children just want to see YOU, the mom who comforts, plays, and is always there. They don’t care about the wrinkles or extra pounds. You are perfect just as you are, and you deserve to exist in photos with your children.
moms, here’s how to get you into photos:
First, pass the camera or phone to someone else and join your kids in the frame. Do this during park visits, cookie baking, or family walks. The photos don’t have to be perfect, but capturing everyday moments is a precious gift to your children.
Then, consider professional photography sessions. A professional photographer can optimise lighting, posing, and expression to create beautiful portraits. I’d be thrilled to assist you with this! Use my contact form to get in touch, and let’s create some beautiful images together!
Of the same importance, print your family photos! With the uncertainty of technology in the future, having tangible printed products will safely ensure that your children and grandchildren can enjoy seeing pictures of you, no matter the changes in digital technology. After your session with me, you will have full printing rights to your chosen photos, but if you would like anything done in a professional photo lab, you can order those through me, and I will make sure to provide you with premium-quality products.
